There are so many gay porn blogs out there that feature photos of the same few sites. It's really hard to stand out.
The porn blogs I follow are the ones with a distinct personality, either focus, personality of something insightful.
I like DudetubeOnline.com because it features comic book news along with the gay porn. Sounds like a strange match, but it works for horny gay nerds like me! There's a lot of personality on the site and I feel connected.
I read TheSword.com because Zack Sire is a great reporter. It's the TMZ of gay porn, but smarter.
TheUncutCock.com has foreskin. I love foreskin and I love the focus.
GayPornarama.com has big, beautiful pictures. Rob Rushmore is one of the best writers out there. I'd love to see him writing about other things on his mind because I love his writing.
TommyWells.net has real attitude. Tommy is a little mischievous and it works so well for him. He's also at a lot of porn star events and gets some exclusive photos and coverage. He's in the trenches.

My advice is to figure out what makes you and your site different and play it up. Have a dialogue with your audience and create a community. Surfers will come back daily if they feel connected. Use Facebook and Twitter to really communicate and share some of yourself with porn fans.

And, of coarse, do A LOT of coverage of my new site FantasticForeskin.com. It's new and not over-saturated.

I wish you huge success with GaySmut.net

-RobertChandler
FantasticForeskin.com