I think we are both afraid of marriage, we just want the right.

Seen too many long term relationships take a turn after marriage. Sometimes I think marriage adds imaginary pressure to people even though our lives our already so intertwined.

Saw a Goldie Hawn interview where she says she likes not being married after all of this time because it means each day they choose to be together but have no legal bonds. Either can wake up any day and leave and each day they stay it means they want to. I totally get that.