I'll say this...

the gay end of the business has come into it's own.

We've blossomed into a big man-eating Venus Fly trap, and we've come to the point where we can do this on our own. Many independent gay webmasters don't bother using the gay cross-over sites and just go with gay-run programs that produce better content and understand the needs of people advertizing to gay customers.

We know that as the straight side gets more and more crowded they're going to try to get us to come back and sit at the kid's table at shows.

We're not biting.

I don't mean to be hard on you, and I get it that the straight companies have no problem with us being gay. (well, for the most part)

But we've out-grown the need to have straight companies helping us out and inviting us to their shows.

:jasun: