and yet that VERY effeminate top i talked about thinks he's the epitome of masculinity. so asking doesn't really solve anything, and makes it more likely that people will lie or mislead.

when the people start to talk or show each other photos, they'll figure out if they're attracted without asking a question that feels like a straight person's version of gay male relationships to me.

btw, ken - there are gay men out there that are centered and happy. there are also gay men with tons of issues, but masculine vs feminine was never one of them. everyone doesn't have the same problems or we'd never have drama

Quote Originally Posted by mistwist View Post
Hi guys someone just pointed this out to me and I want to clear something up.

We are not trying to label anyone at ManLuv, it's not about a label, it is about helping a guy find exactly what he is looking for easily. Some men prefer a fem guys, some prefer a masculine guys.

If you were to sign up to another site and do a search, man seeking man, but you prefer fem guys over masculine wouldn't your search be made a little easier if things were broken down further?

It's for ease of use, to help the end user find the exact person he is looking for, nothing more.