Something else I've noticed. It seems to be human nature to criticize but people rarely offer a helpful counter suggestion. Thanks to HotMaleVideos for doing just that (and anyone else who may have that I've missed). To offer a suggestion myself, I don't think the masculine/feminine question is that bad, but if it's one of only a few choices than you really run the risk of alienating a lot of gay men, just in the wording. However, if this question were posed in a long list of attributes, say "masculine/feminine/top/bottom/kinky/leather/fetish/humorous/serious/jock/punk/business/preppy", then you have a wide range of things to choose from. I always hate forms that only give you two choices when you fall in between.