Quote Originally Posted by fineline View Post
My statement is true for me. Not necessarily true for anyone else. It's also difficult to convey an opinion in a few small sentences.

As far as anyone who has HIV. They should have sex with anyone that is willing to have sex with them. I just don't happen to be one of those persons. But I do think that the non infected person should be warned about the HIV status prior to having sex with the infected person. I think that its an obligation on the part of the HIV infected person to say his status.

It's a really difficult question to answer. There are too many hypothetical questions that go along with the main question.


I understand your situation and I agree with your words of advice of having "smart sex".

The difficulty comes when you have someone like Basschick who tries to do a guilt trip with the old "what if the condom broke"..which is in essence telling someone who is hiv+ to NOT ever have sex with an hiv- person.