Quote Originally Posted by basschick View Post
i didn't suggest anything at all in my last post or even make a statement - i asked questions only. i'm also not trying to portray you as anything - obviously you have feelings - in fact, i am asking about your feelings..

if someone HIV+ is willing to fuck someone HIV-, isn't what i asked the risks with their own emotions that they are willing to take? to me it is unimaginable that if i had HIV i could have sex with someone negative because i know i could not live with my own sadness, guilt and self-blame if i passed it to them. but part of that is my own personal issues and at this moment i only know how i feel.


The reason I found your question ridiculous is that you asked me how I would FEEL if the condom broke and the person got infected. Did you expect me to say "I couldn't care one way or another"? Of course it would bother me, anyone with an ounce of morality would be upset by that situation. So that's a true strawman argument that you are using when you KNOW the answer before you ask the question.