i didn't suggest anything at all in my last post or even make a statement - i asked questions only. i'm also not trying to portray you as anything - obviously you have feelings - in fact, i am asking about your feelings..

if someone HIV+ is willing to fuck someone HIV-, isn't what i asked the risks with their own emotions that they are willing to take? to me it is unimaginable that if i had HIV i could have sex with someone negative because i know i could not live with my own sadness, guilt and self-blame if i passed it to them. but part of that is my own personal issues and at this moment i only know how i feel.

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So you are suggesting that hiv poz people stay celibate or only with hiv poz partners?

What a ridiculous question to ask a person. Of course I would not feel good about a condom breaking, so don't try to portray me as person devoid of feelings and intelligence just because I am hiv poz.